Power of Positive Thinking

I stumbled on to this you tube video this morning and that i thought would be a real eye opener for you. Its deals with how to think positive with confidence. This will definitely push you in the right direction to becoming more of a optimistic thinker.






Positive thinking is what all people who have had great success use in order to create their own destiny. Thinking positive allows you to see the world differently and attack any obstacle with fearless confidence. Allowing yourself to think in terms of positive results. Thus taking off a lot of unnecessary pressure and anxiety off your mind. Its keeps you calm, relaxed and feeling great.

Have you started to think positive yet?
If not, what is holding you back?

2 Ways to Enhance Persistance

We all wish we were more persistence in our activities. We all wish that our word will ultimately become our bond. Sadly, it's not the case. The lack of persistence is the direct reason why failure is the prominent result of people who pursue their desire. This seemingly new trend of working half ass towards a goal seems to be the new popular rave this generation. People make decision to attain a certain figure, an increased income or a new car. Yet, the result show nothing but the same old habits that lead people to failure. Why is that? Why do people set new yearly goals, but never achieve them. Every year, the same cliche is made " What is your new year resolution"? Have you made your new resolution yet? Millions of people dedicate time to write down what they wish to accomplish but when the year s up, nothing is achieved. Nothing is improved. Nothing is overcome.
This obvious mental maze of saying one thing, but doing the next has become a common state of mind for millions.

" Its no what a man says that defines him, but what he does"

Will Power

A way to enhance persistence is having the mental will power to put action behind words. Its being able to wake up early in the morning ,to shed 50 lbs off your body in order to have the body you know you truly deserve. Will power means staying up late, and completing your task for the day so you can sleep easily. Having will power ultimately means, being able to summon strength from within to tackle any obstacle or challenge.
Developing will power is essentially taken from having self discipline, delaying gratification and thinking in terms of how to think positive.
Will power is like a seed within your mind. As you nourish it with confidence, love, knowledge,
desire, persistence, positive thoughts and perseverance. The seed will grow start to grow into a plant. With consistency this plant can grow into a strong tree, which stands 50 feet in the air above local homes down the road.
Doing what you have to do, in order to get the results you want is the 1st key to persistence. Making yourself self - accountable for the results you intend to create is a dominant factor in enhancing your persistence. Don't look to blame anyone but yourself in taking responsibility to keep working towards your goal. Here is a great tip. Take responsibility for your result. Many people look to blame outside circumstance to excuse their blemishes. You need to take full responsibly for your action and work to wards your goal with persistence and self- accountability.


Association

Those who we associate with tend to be a reflection of who are truly are and what we believe. Most people hang around only with people of like minded views. Its our nature. We seek people with similarities and stick with them. Now i want you to ask yourself this question. Are the people i am hanging around with suitable to help me as I start becoming more serious about achieving my goals? Will my friends support me positively as i develop more persistence? If you have negative answers to these questions, then i suggest making some new positive friends. I say this not to be rude, but to help you out. With negative friends, they tend to pull us down instead of helping us reach for the sky. Negative friends will usually distract us, tell us to forget about it, tell us to meet them at the mall instead of working to towards our goal.................Do you see where i am going this?

On the other hand, positive friend will encourage you to push your self to the limit, tell you to stay home and work on your goal, even come by and assist you with you assignment, they enhance your success instead of squashing your tasks with verbal distractions. You have to share your go up goals with just a few people. Most people never want to see anyone succeed, so you must be cautious to who you share your goals with. So, pick a positive friend and start to make thing's happen. Everything start with you.

What are you doing to Enhance Persistence?
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Confront Those Fears

" Do what you fear most and you control fear"
- Tom Hopkins









Lets break down what F.E.A.R encompasses.

False
What is the meaning of false?My definition of false embodies: a delusion of an imaginary reality conceived by the mind in order to stop an individual from discovering his or her true self. This false perception of reality, keeps people from untapping their inner most talents. Inevitably disallowing them get more out of life. Incredibly, the false perception of possible circumstances that will not occur keeps people from evolving their minds. This image is created by worries and fictitious possible outcomes that lock the door to the mind. Harvesting people who only see themselves as less capable of completing certain tasks or activities.

Evidence
The evidence in Fear stands for the ketchup stains that appear to look like blood in the mind of adults. This evidence appears so real in the minds of countless human beings that the thought of conquering their fears keep them living in tight quarter of consciousness. Instead of flying through life as an eagle on a bright Sunday morning just before breakfast. Unfortunately, most adults live their lives believing that the toy guns and shiny plastic sheriff badges have authority in the real world. This mental slavery is deeply rooted within the minds of the majority of the population. As you can see most people hate there jobs, frown upon taking risk and see over achieving as a doing too much. It's no wonder why we live in a society were being successful means corruption or wealth is perceived as greed. Do you think wealth is greed? I don't. I success as calculated risks that paid off....How about you? Well non the less, this decaying state of mind has crippled the masses into seeing themselves as less adequate and low in self concept. This false evidence controls the thoughts, opinions and beliefs of millions of individuals causing life to be seen as a never ending traffic jam instead of a uphill climb.


Appearing
The false appearance of the being faced against an insurmountable obstacle holds adults back mostly all of their lives. With out a sense of courage or bravery, people chose to live struggling day to day with no hope in site. We have created a generation of hopeless individuals who think in terms of negativity and mediocity. No one every encourages one another to fight for there dreams, despite the obstacles ahead. People tend to brush situations off, in place of pursing a desire they truly know they can succeed from their involvment. Words such as responsibility, focus, consistency and how the mind works cause people to keep their eyes open for Fredi Kruger or The Candy Man. Wondering around life feeling deeply empty because they have no purpose in life.


Real
The reality which keeps people in a mental prison holds back society from being evolving into its finest stages. The perception of an obstacle may seem insurmountable to the naked eye. Yet, as you look deep down the rabbit hole, one will find that fear isn't what it appears to be.
F. E. A. R is a mental cancer that kills the minds of million of people. It keeps you from going to night school to get your degree, or taking on the new special project that you know you can do well in or tackling a new business opportunity that can help you achieve your dreams. Fear can stop you from learning how to think positive. This destructive state of mind is problem focused in stead of being solution oriented. If you find yourself living in fear, be consciously aware that Fear Is Not REAL. Rise above it and conquer those thoughts. You can Do it!


What steps can I take?

The process of getting rid of fear maybe a mental roller coaster in the beginning. Having a state of mind focused on results and progression is a must. Consistency , persistence and a deep desire to conquer these psychological blocks will help you reign supreme over your fears faster. The more you want to succeed, the more will power you will have to attain this goal. The more you do what you fear most, the more you see the fear as insignificance.



1. What Are You Afraid Of?
Narrow down what causes you to feel anxiety and mental distress. Ask yourself "What is the worst possible scenario? Am I ready to take my live to the next level? Why is fear holding me back? What daily step can I take to conquer this fear? Its good start to ask yourself these question, because you have to analyze what you are afraid of and why you feel held back. Plus, ask yourself how can conquering this fear benefit me in the long run.



2. Positive Encouragement
Make sure to mentally psyche yourself before up before you take on this task. Consciously realize, fear is just an illusion and no one puts a limit on your capabilities expect for you. If you feel that you can do it, then you can. If you believe you can't than you are equally as right. So put your best foot forward and think in terms of a positive outcome with a better you attached. Attack the fear with a sense of unshakable confidence as you step up again Goliath. Understand that if someone else has conquered their fear in your department, you can do the same. The only difference is that they had the courage to do so.

Remember to always work on bettering yourself. With daily progression, we tend to become more capable than someone who doesn't push themselves to see how much they can achieve.
So start By setting up daily goals, that will move you closer to conquering you fears.


What Are you Afraid of? What fears have you conquered lately?

What Defines Success?

Do you want to be successful? What a stupid question, ponders in my conscious mind as I type this article. Of course you want to be successful. Being Successful is just a bi-product of work hard towards your goals. Everyone has their own definition of what success really is. Some of you may define success as the ability to travel anywhere in the world. Just being able to pick up and leave within a blink of an eye, with out checking your credit card balance. While others want to live the lavish life of flashing lights and 1 am club appearances. We all have our definition of success. No definition is more potent than the other. It is just a perspective from the mind of an individual who is thinking. So I ask you what is your definition of success? Have you even considered your self as successful? Do you think you have what it takes to reach your dreams?

Oh, of course not......

Is that the thought you hear in your mind, as you read my words. Possibly? I truly hope I'm mistaken because deep within your human brain you have the ability to achieve any goal you set your mind upon. This may be the first time you have hear this , but the fact is that success is a formula. It's simply proven steps that you take in order to get a result, similar to anything.

“The ladder of success is best climbed by stepping on the rungs of opportunity.”

- Ayn Rand

Climb the ladder

Here is the formula to success:" Don't tell anyone I told you"

1. Desire

List all the reason why you want to become successful. The more reason you have, to greater the motivation you receive. The more motivated you are, the harder you will work in order to achieve your goal.

2. Positive Mind

Develop a positive mind by thinking positive thought continuously for 10-20 days. You can use affirmations, self talk, audio tapes, self recording etc, to achieve this state of mind. Once you have a positive mental attitude, you tend to see the glass as half full instead of half empty. Learn how to think positive for massive success.

3. Plan

Create a blueprint on how you will achieve your goal. Write out every detail, as if you were going to build a house. Make sure you continuously fix and update your plan as opportunities start to arise and when things don't always go your way.

4. Action

A thought with out action is a delusion. So you must take action in order for your plan to work. By taking action, it reinforces your beliefs in becoming a success. Do any and everything you can think of, which can bring you one step closer to achieving your goal.

5. Visualize

See your self in your mind with your goals already attained. This will bring your goals closer to you and you closer to your goals. Continue to replay this mental picture on the screen of your mind and it will soon become a reality.

6. Diligence

Its true that successful people start earlier and work later. All successful people work HARD
HARD HARD. Incredibly, you have to work for the dream you want to attain. Its going to take work, but with focus and consistency, it will pay off big time in the end.

7. Perseverance

Don't you ever think about quitting or giving up. This phrase will help you stay focused and keep your eye on your dreams

" Winners Never Quit And Quitters Never Win"

This Quote may be a little outdated, but the meaning is still very powerful. If you want to attain your dream, you a must make a solemn oath to never ever quit. I'm not going to lie! There are going to be rough times, you may possibly go broke a few times and even get very stressed out. But in the end if you stay focused on the positive, following these steps and make every day a successful day, though goal completion. You will come out a diamond that has been forged though heat.

Why Follow these steps?

There is no way , you can develop these elements and fail. This is specifically what it takes to be successful. It my seem a lot at first. But when the "Why Is Big enough The How Doesn't Matter". Which means if you have a deep desire to become successful, the process needed to achieve your goal becomes elementary. So the more reasons you establish, in your mind as to why you want to be successful, suddenly the activities to achieve this dream become like 5Th grade algebra.
Becoming a success isn't an overnight delivery from FedEx or Ups. It's a step by step process, which takes time. It's a transformation from seeing life from an employees perspective to an multi-millionaire's iris. But as you take bit size steps into this metamorphosis, I will soon reveal itself in your mind as the right path to take.

*You as a person defines what success ultimately mean to you*

What does success mean to you?Are you currently on a path to reaching you goals?

It May Be Your Last Day....

I know the stress of the day may make you mad and upset. But you must except the world for what it is and rise above it. People are lazy, aggressive, egotistically, tardy, rude and amongst many other things. But don't let things such as this get you down or drain you mentally. Live this day as if it were your last day on plane earth. Tell your spouse you love them, take you kids our
to an amusement park " don't tell them", watch your favorite flim, keep that attitude positive by all means. Life is just too good to be down and out. enjoy every moment, becuase life s a miracle and just appreciating it can show you how to think positive Just like you, I have a family also, and I sometimes forget to make every moment count. I sometimes get so swamped with work , forget the important people in my life.

Its truly is a fact that we never really truly realize how precious someone is until they are gone. It's a sad fact that I and maybe you, have found this out the hard way.
So i just want to make to post to remind you guys that life is a miracle. And we should live every day like its our last.

Are you appreciative of this miracle we call life?
I want to know your opinions on living everyday like its your last? Have you been making this successful transition?



Till next time!

3 Powerful ways to Build Confdence

Everyone wants to be confident. Everyone want to walk down to street and approach people with such a demeanor that will cause the earth to shake. But some people can't even muster up the confidence to ask for a raise. Why is this? Well it's deeper than just the 2nd grade girl who didn't give you a valentine card or being turned down from the popular guy, for asking him to the prom. It stems from being continuously shown and told that you aren't brave enough, courageous enough or have the balls to do certain things. It could of been the pressure or the lack of desire to achieve our objective. So if you want to become confident here is a 3 quick tips

1. Action
You can only gain confidence by taking action. You have to take action, walk and talk like a person of confidence, even if you don't have the characteristics as yet. The more you act like something your not initially, the more you become it.

" Whatever the mind can conceive and believe it can achieve"
- Napoleon Hill

So start to talking to random people where ever you go. Don't worry about what your going to say, just do it. Talk about the horrible weather, the bad economy or even ask someone for the time. Just start with little ice breakers , which will inevitably lead to strong friendships and even strong relationships. So lesson number 1 Action!


2. Think Before You Act
Before you go out, talking to random people and making a bunch of friends. You must first see yourself in your mind as a person who is confident and in control. Here is the key. Everyone on this planet acts in accordance with their self concept. So since this is true and in order for us to become better than, we are currently. We must raise our self concept. Now how do we do this? well it's simple. Close your eyes, relax and see your self in your ideal situation as calm and confident. Do this as much times as possible in a day. Once you step out of the door and start introducing yourself to people. You will act just like the confident image you displayed across your mind.


3. Belief
Believe that you can achieve this goal of having confidence is essential part to success. You have to start believing that you can be confident. Realize that if anyone on this planet can obtain confidence , so can you. Everyone is the same on the inside. Everyone is burning for more self esteem and a feeling to be liked. So, one way to shatter your old belief and start believing that you can be confident is to question why you aren't confident. Talk to yourself and interrogate your mind and find out why aren't you confident. Once you start to question a belief , you slowly but surely start disbelieving what you once that was true. Belief creates the realization for each and everyone of us. We act in relation to our belief. Once you change what you believe you act different. Start believing your confident, and you will start acting confident. Belief allow you to understand how to think positive.




I want to leave this post with several quotes that will urge you to, start acting with confidence and assurance.

"The greatest barrer to success is the fear of failure"
- Sven Ericksson

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that frightens us most. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and famous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in all of us. And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

-Nelson Mandela

“Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”

- Unknown

Have You Built Confidence?
How have you taken step to becoming more confidence?
Is you progression were you would like it to be?

Why You Need Goals...

"People with goals succeed in life because
they know where they are going"

- Earl Nightingale

What are goals?

A lot of people may be confused to how goals have of any significant importance in our life. Human's wonder, why it is necessary to have goals in order to succeed. Well to put it bluntly. People with goals succeed in life because they know where they are going. Goal are used to keep the human being continuously progressing toward some thing worthy. An objective that makes one stretch the comfort zone in order to reach there dream. With out goals, an individual tends to waste his or her life, feeling empty inside. Completely inadequate and lives under his or her potential.

Why have goals
Here an Example:
Now think of a ship leaving a harbor and think of it with the complete voyage mapped out and planned. The captain and crew knows exactly where it's going and how long it will take. It has definite goal. Now 99,999 out of 10,000 times it will get to its destination. Now picture another ship just like the first, but lets not put a crew on it or a captin at the helm. Lets give it no aiming point . With no goal and destination. I think you will agree with me that if it gets out the harbor at all it will either sink or wind up on some deserted beach. This is the same with a human being. If we have no goal or destination for our future, we tend we drift off and wonder. We become wandering generalities instead on meaningful specifics. Goals are used to build confidence, provide self- assurance, install perseverance, how to think positive, and build character. Goals are everything we need to become the person , we wish the become.

Goals help

Goals are basically your personal blueprints on how you want to live your life. It's a map of the tasks that you have to complete in order to attain your desired objective. So if you want to obtain a brand new stereo system. Write out daily activities you can do in order to achieve this goal. Its may be working extra hours at your job, or even starting a side business doing something your interested in and maybe even love. But if your dream is bigger " i hope so". You may have goals that deals with being the tops sales man in the country. And if this is your objective, write down at least 6 things a day that will lead you to this in the long goal. Remember to put a date on the completion of you long term goals. By putting a deadline on your end result, your mind will act like a homing mechanism to make sure everything happens in order for you the achieve this goal.

Goal mindset
You must carry with your self a era of confidence and cockiness that you have already achieved this goal. You must believe that everything is happening righ now, in order for you to reach this goal. Have no doubt in your mind that you cannot achieve this goal. Expect everything to fall into place in order for you to achieve this dream of yours. By having a attitude of positive expectancy, your mind clams down, doubt clears away and things begins to happen.

" Belief create the reality"
- Brian Tracy

Are You Goal Oriented?
Tell me How you are taking day to Day steps n Achieving your Long term goal? If not was this helpful in steering you in the right direction?