Tuesday, September 15, 2009

How To Suck At Positive Thinking


"I have had dreams and I have had nightmares,
but I have conquered my nightmares because of my dreams."

-Dr. Jonas Salk











Many people doubt the capabilities of posiitve thinking, but why is this? Napoleon Hill said" Positive Thinking is a pre-requsite for success", Author of Think and Grown rich. Yet, Millions of people across the globe chose to think negative. What can be the source of this? Positive thinking can't be such a hard thing to develop over time, but yet again people love corruption, controversy, and violence. If you turn on the television all you will find is ignorance, violence, slander and sex. Since the average American watches 4 hours of t.v a day it's no shock why failure seems to be theirs mindset 24hours a day. But this post is not for the millions who watch t.v and refuse to change but for the ones who are making an effort, yet no result. If you want better result on your positive thinking make sure your not making these follow mistakes millions of people do.

Lack of consistency: Is the 1st major mistake people make when trying to develop a positive mind. If you want to learn how to be positive, this isn't a 2 day session or a 1 week try out. Positive thinking is a life long process which takes practice. Daily effort must be applied at all levels to attain this wonderful state of mind. If your not consistent, point blank period you will FAIL! Learning how to think positive is not a short term activity, but a permanent attitude needed to develop a great life. If you want to achieve amazing things in your life time, then become more consistent. If your having a bad day, realize that you can change your thoughts by doing any of the following

1. Watch A Comedy

2. Listen to you Favorite Song

3. Talk to a positive friend

4. Walk by the Beach

5. Take A Swim

Do anything you can to change your state of mind. Why? Every thought you think is creating a mental habit, which is either positive or negative. Pick the Latter of the two, because it will payoff in the end.


If You Aren't Motivated: Lack of motivation will be the death of your positiev thoughts. If your not motivated enough to put forth the effort to create a positive mind, then you will FAIL. If you need motivation, find something which will cause you to feel motivated enough to be in for the long haul. Motivation can be created by writing a list of all the benefits you will receive from learn how to think positive. Your list can consist of the following

1. So my kids no longer have to ask can we afford it

2. My husband deserves the Mustang he been begging for

3. I want to take year long vacation with my family sailing around the world

4. I want to be able to teach my family how to be successful thought postive thinking

5. I deserve to enjoy my short time on this planet

6. I deserve to give my kids to world

7. I want to own my car, Not LEASE it

8. I want a Beautiful home so my grand kids can run around naked in.....Silly babies

9. I want to live in style, no tragedy

10. I want peace of mind.

Construct you list with as much details and reasons as humanly possible. The more reasons you have which are genuine the more likely a posiitve mind will become easier for you attain. Why? Your motivation cause you to put in the extra effort you were lacking previously. *Remember once you pass the learning curve it become easier and easier and did if forget easier. So the difficulty is only in the beginning, but after a few sessions, it becomes 2nd grade math.

"Positive in, Positive out" is the cliche: If you want to be positive then listen to positive material. Reasonably people fail at positive thinking is because they try it out for a bit, but don't change what they read, watch or listen to on a daily basis. Let me ask you a question, How can you be positive if you watching t.v 4 hours a day, listening to negative music on the radio and watching violence, sex or corruption online? Exactly you can't. Im not suggesting you cannot enjoy those aspects of life, because too much positivity is just bland. But, you need to minimize the amount of negativity you allow your brain to receive on a daily basis. Putting positive material into your brain can only produce positive results, it;s that simple. Here is a few things you can do to push your mind in a positive direction.

1. Read 15 minutes a day in a Positive book or article

2. Watch positive videos on you tube

3. Blast educational and motivational tapes in your car

4. Listen to Positive Musiz

5. Talk to successful positive people

6. If you have kids, allow them to read positive books

7. Limit Your television Intake

8. Create Your own posiitve script of who you want to become and read it each night and morning



"When life knocks you down, try to land on your back.

Because if you can look up, you can get up.

Let your reason get you back up."

- Les Brown

Lesson 1: Be Consistent

Lesson 2: Get Motivated

Lesson 3: Put Positive Material in your Brain


Are you Sucking at Positive thinking? Did this Help? Lets Discuss

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Saturday, September 12, 2009

Posiitve Thinking Is Destroying Your Life


Positive thinking seems to be a trend now a days, after the secret was released. Millions of all around the globe attempted to learn how to think positive, but failed. They visualized themselves as having their desires, began to ask but did not receive a God Damn Thing. Why? Why did millions of people who began to change their thinking have the same results as before? This quote will answer your question!

" Thought without action is delusion"
- Jim Rohn


Nothing will come to you unless you work for it. Its a universal law! Which one? The Law of sowing and reaping. If your not familiar with this law let me jog your memory. "As you sow so shall you reap" is the biblical line found within the bible. But I'm going to get religious in this post; it not my forte but, The law says" You sow exactly what you reap, nothing more nothing less." So to put things into perspective if you sow nothing you can't possibly reap anything. If you wanted a new job, don't just ask the universe for a new job or think about acquiring one in a positive mind state. Begin to LOOK for one. It will happen easier because you are thinking optimistically, but you must put some work behind it.

If you want to find the missing link to the secret Here are a couple tips On How to think positive

1. Be positive

What ever your thinking right now, if it isn't making you happy then stop thinking about it. Happiness is something you deserve to feel on a daily basis no matter the weather. Those who are mad all the time, I can bet my bottom dollar have thoughts associated with frustration, confusion and lack. Control your mind from here on by thinking good thoughts. Remember your attitude is determined by altitude. As a result, how far you go in life is determined by your positive outlook.

2. Do something?

Yes, don't just ask and wait around like a douche bag. Take some action today! If you want to lose weight don't think positive and have another piece of cheesecake. Who are you fooling? Get your ass on that treadmill and work those dinner rolls until you cannot get up. Feel the burn of being out of your comfort zone and achieving your goal. Its truly the only way to grow for the better.

3. Childlike Visionary

Use your imagination to see your goal as already completed. Imagination is a characteristic we all as human begin have, but seldom use. Even though its free, fun and creates our own very future. Use your imagination to see your desire, fantasy or goal. Keep these pictures vividly in your mind several times a day. The repetition of positive images create positive outcomes.

4. Thank you

Don't be shy, Be thankful. Appreciate what you already have in your life. We seldom realize how lucky we are until it's gone. Don't wait until your on your death bed to appreciate life and be thankful for your blessing. Become thankful for what you have now because tomorrow is never guaranteed.

5. Something New

Each and every day do something brand new. Most negativity develops from boring routines such as waking up mad, going to work upset, having a bad day" now your in deep depression", going home "Stress increases", yell at your kids' because your feeling low" , going to bed mad, repeat, rinse and recycle. Instead do something different for the day. Smile at everyone, hug your kids when they walk though the door or take them out for ice cream. Change up your style for the day and turn that frown upside down.

6. Don't Listen to Nay Sayers

When people say negative things to you don't react as they would. Instead smile it off. Never allow someones bad attitude to ruin your day. Tell them your sorry they feel that way and continue on your merry way. People spend too much time focusing deeply on thoughts about what someone said. Get your mind back on how to think positive and feel those happy emotions running though your veins.

7. End Radio Listening

Go on a mental diet where you decide not to listen to the radio unless the lyrics are based on positivity. Listening to positive music for the next 30 days can develop a posiitve mind over time. Most people spend hour and hours in there cars over weeks. This is a lot of time spent listening to negative garbage, instead blast positive music or educational tapes inside your vehicle. It will be an uplifting experience you will begin to cherish.

8. Educate yourself

Read 15-30 minutes each and ever day on positive material. Here is a list of suggested books to read.

1. Chicken Soup for the Soul
2. Think and Grow Rich
3. Power of Positive Thinking
4. How to Win Friends And Influence People
5. Magic of Thinking Big

Doing this long enough creates a habit, thus building a character and reaping a positive destiny.

9. Plenty Fluids

Stop filling your body will toxic such as beer or drugs. Begin to drink lot of water. Drinking water cleanses the body and release toxins from your system.

10. Time to Reflect

Spend 10-15 minutes each day to reflect on how the day went. Think about your attitude throughout your day, what you said to people, and find ways to improve your mistakes. But also congratulate yourself for having a great attitude throughout that day.

11. Giving

Instead of taking all the time, allow yourself to give. Giving away money, food, friendly positive advice or even clothing can be very therapeutic. Its a great way to build confidence, self-esteem and all good things begin to come to your way. Give as much as you can, but expect nothing in return. Give because it's just the humane thing to do. Nothing more, Nothing less.

Have you any ideas on how to think positive? Did you find this helpful?

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Positive Thinking From 4 World Famous Humans!

To Be A Successful Investor? by businesspictures.

Do feel like your mind is running a muck?Jumping around with
thoughts of self pity, deprivation and confusion.
Are you at the stage where you want to think positive,
but would like a bit of extra motivation. Who else has used
positive thinking to reach their dreams? Did they leave any
useful tips? Here is a list of 4 world-famous people who have
used positive thinking to achieve tremendous result. Use
these facts as a jump start to changing your life or don't
continue to read this article. I say this because if your not
going to use my information then its a waste of your time and
mines. I hope you consider changing your life by changing your thought.
Why? You only live once...

Arnold Schwarzenegger

Mr. Schwarzenegger born in Russia is a 5 time Mr universe and 4 time Olympia. He believes " as long as the mind can envision the fact then you can do something. Arnold Schwarzenegger began to envisioned himself as being already having achieved the goal he was pursuing. He used positive thinking, mixed with visualization to attain all of his worldly accomplishments. Now he is the governor of California, Philanthropist and a World- Famous movie star. What can you learn from him? Guess, Use positive thinking to envision your goal within your mind. The results in your head will cause you to take massive action, getting massive results thus reinforcing your beliefs that it is possible to succeed. If Arnold has achieved so much within his life on this planet just by taking daily steps and thinking positive, what do you think you can do? Think about it.

Napoleon Hill

Author of the classic novel Think and Grow rich Napoleon Hill explains how any individual can become massively successful by following his proven formula.
1. First come the thought of your desire, dream of fantasy
2. Organization of these thoughts into a plan of action
3. Using your imagination to make the goals real with you mind before it come to
fruition.

"The genius is he who sees what is not yet and cause it to be true" - Peter Zarlenga

Will Smith


Will has used the power of positive thinking to dominate the movie charts year after year after year.Once a broke kid in his early teens, he developed a mindset which has created massive wealth for himself and his family. Will Smith has stated several times " In my mind I have always been an A-list movie star, y'all just ain't know it yet". This means he saw himself in his mind as a World famous actor before it came to fruition. Now think about this for a moment. No. Really soak it in. The key to his success is that Will developed a mindset of being what he desired to become in his mind. He could of thought of himself as a janitor, bus driver or social worker, but he saw himself as An A-list Hollywood movie star Millions of people adore and love. So who do you want to be? How can you attain your goals? Use visualization and positive thinking to get anything you want, desire or want to experience. Simple!


" In my mind I have always been an A-list movie star, y'all just ain't know it yet"
- Will Smith

I bring up this quote again because people read quotes that inspire them but take no action towards their dreams. Something resonates with them to start making daily chnages but it fear holds them back. If your that person reading this here is my advice. Do what you you fear most and the fear is dead.


Oprah Winfrey


A women who was rapped at the age of 14 and is now a Billionaire. My question is what is your excuse? Oprah was psychologically and emotionally destroyed at a young age by being rapped by a family member and too top it off she gave birth to her son who did 4 weeks later..... [ moment of silence please]
Imagine what she felt like? How low her self esteem was? No confidence in who she was...
A mind filled with self destruction and mental cancer. You probably never felt like that in your life, yet you still sit around watching t.v all day and not progressing to your full potential. You probably still thinking negative now.... Pathetic! Do you have to get raped for you to see your own ability to do whatever you put your mind too. I hope not! So get off your lazy ass and change your thinking.

Steps to Greatness
1. Begin to develop positive self talk
2. Read positive material daily
3. Take 1 day at a time
4. Limit your television intake
5. Start to see your self as great
6. Take daily steps
7. Don't listen to your negative friends" switch up your circles"
8. Have some good sex to loosen up the stress......always a positive :)

"Think Like a Queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. failure is another stepping stone to greatness"
- Oprah


Are you getting the picture? Are you now beginning to see that positive thinking is the only way to reach your goals?

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Benefits of How to Think Positive Doggy

Last of the Fall leaves by SmilingMonk.

Sometimes 1 bad day out of the week is just inevitable for you.
Whether your feeling sad, confused, insecure or just plain dull
there is a solution. Most people usually have 7 days of sadness,
confusion and continuous insecurities within their life. So how can
you shift these thoughts of negativity? Two words you need to know

Think Positive

The English language is made up of hundred of thousands of words, yet these think positive is the only solution to your current problem. But what are the benefits of positive thinking which can cause you to actually walk down this benevolent path?

Increase life Span

Living longer on this beautiful planet can only be a bonus. We seldom look at life though the eyes of a person who has only 24 hours to live. Imagine if you went to the doctors office, and as you sat down on the table he explained this scenario.
Excuse me Mr. Jones, but the cancer has spread all throughout your body, this is hard for me to say but you only have 24hours left before your body is gives into this terrible disease. How would you feel? What would you do? What would be you initial reaction? Hopefully you don't have to go through this, but my point is to use positive thinking as a foundation to increase your life span. How does this work? Positive thinking reduces stress, heal wounds faster and slows down the aging process. Put all this together and you have a longer life to live.

Self Confidence

Most people are afraid to express how they really feel most of the times. Shyness seems to be a natural state of mind for millions of people. With Positive thinking you can align yourself with a conscious which contains great self self confidence. Self confidence is a combination of positive thinking, being friendly and smiling you butt off. People are only approachable if you provide a nice smile to disarm their thoughts of defense. The power of smiling is underrated , yet it can turn a bad date good, seal a negotiation or win friends and influence people. Think good thoughts as you smile at people and your self confidence will increase.

Energy
Negative thinking drains your energy by bringing you into a state of depression, anxiety, confusion and laziness. Thinking positive adds fuel to your fire which sky rockets motivation, creating positive momentum for the day and turns that frown upside down. Positive thinking effects every way you feel because you attitude determines your result, thus affecting the actions you take and the result you ultimately receive. More positive thinking, the more energetic you feel because your thoughts are the causes for your emotions.

Use Law Of Attraction

There has been lots of speculation on the Law of Attraction aka The secret. The point of the law of attraction is to fuse Visualization with positive thinking together to get whatever you want from life. By using the Law of attraction, you get what ever you focus upon on a daily basis. Think about something long enough and it will appear in your reality whether you want it or not. The LOA can only be a benefit to you if you begin to learn how to think positive. Focusing on the negativity side of life will only bring more negativity into your reality. Thought become things so to speak, so think about what you want not what you don't want. This can only benefit you, if used properly.

What are some of the benefits you received from Positive thinking?

Monday, September 7, 2009

How to Be Positive Guaranteed....

exhausted by Dalla*.


How to be positive consist of a variation of elements compounded together
which create a positive mind.

So what are those elements?

Do you really want to know?

Open up your mind to these 5 tips on how to be positive guaranteed...

1. Smile

Just smiling a bit more causes you to feel better about yourself. What does smiling do specifically? It increases your confidence, self esteem, self assurance and build energy. This method is so simple, free and easy, yet millions walk around frowning all day. If your feeling a bit under the weather today, begin to smile and watch your thoughts shift dramatically.

2. Think Good Thoughts

Instead of filling up your mind with thought of negativity, why not try the opposite. Its obvious, negative thinking doesn't leave your feeling energetic, optimistic and happy. Its usually builds anger and stress inside of your mind. Thinking good thoughts is just a better way to go. Without a positive mind you begin to enjoy life more, your life span increases, you develop a greater appreciation for life, you experience more happiness and stress is reduced. So next time your in a mental Gladiators match, cancel those thought and think good thoughts. As long as you feel good then your on the right track.

3. Imaginary Player

Jump back for a second into your imagination. A place inside your mind where nothing is impossible. Where everything goes well for you in every aspect of your life. Begin to feel the emotions running through your veins as if you have already reach the pinnacle of your Dreams. How does it feel? Good or Even Greate I bet. Do yourself a favor, by performing this task each and everyday. Why? because

"Imagination is more important than Knowledge. Knowledge is limited. Imagination encircles the world" - Albert Einstein

Every emotion which surfaces from from how we think. If you begin to use your imagination to think of big dreams, endless opportunities and how to be positive, those attributes will reflect in your own reality. Don't hesitate to sit down in a relaxed location and just have fun within your mind for a few minutes a day. It will pay off big time within a couple of days.

4. Booty Work-Out

Get out today and do something to work out that booty. Most negativity comes from sitting around in the house all day not doing anything constructive with your life. Working out is just the activity you need to clear your mind of negativity and get your body moving. An Intense work out may be just what you need in this point in your life. Nothing does the body better than a nice work out to erase the stresses from your life within a few minutes. Working out increases confidence, blood flow to the brain for better ideas, higher self esteem and greater confidence. This is a great way to be positive, instead of watching t.v 4 hours each day.

5. Take a Walk

If your not up for an intense work out, then take a walk. Walking around your neighborhood, park or local shopping area can clear the mind of negativity quite easily. Walking allows you to bask in the glory of life, reduces stress, and create positive momentum for the rest of the day. Imagine having a stressful day or an argument with your significant other. Instead of yell, screaming , saying hurtful things you don't mean or even throwing objects, just walk away. Take a walk to reflect on your behavior... Ask yourself

How could I have reacted better?
Did I really mean those things?
How can improve my behavior?

Seeking for answers within your own mind, will uncover honest truths about yourself. It will cause you to change your reactions, approach and overall negative thought pattern. So next time your in a emotional rut, take a walk and reflect on how you can make the bad good.

Has this post helped you? What Methods are you using to be Positive?

Saturday, September 5, 2009

How To Think Positive In 20 Nano Seconds

Positive Attitude by Dunechaser.

Positive thinking will give you the mental edge you need
for you to reach your goals.An attitude of "I can"
increases your chances for success tremendously.
Significant improvement can be manifested from
thinking positive. What type of Improvements Broham?

1. Happy state of mind
2. Increased Life Span to see your grand kids
3. More energy to do more of what you like to do
4. Peace of Mind
5. Less stress
6. Greater Inner Strength
7. Increased Focused
8. Healthy Body
9. Winners attitude
10. Become an Unlimited Being

Now How can you Create a Positive mind?

Talk to yourself


Talking to your self doesn't mean your going insane.
In fact

"People who talk to themselves are usually of higher intelligence than the masses"
- Dr. Joyce Brothers


But most people speak to themselves negatively even thought they deny self talk. If your trying to solve a math problem and your stuck on a certain problem. You tell yourself " I can't do this or its too hard". That is self talk. Now how can you use this to your advantage? Instead, tell your self the answer is coming to you soon, every you do touches to gold or your going to solve this problem because you will never give up. Positive self talk changes your perspective on how the obstacle was once perceive. Doing this on a daily basis will change how you see your self over time. Your self- concept, self liking and confidence will begin to rise with in a few days. Here is a powerful formula for how to think positive.

Positive self talk + emotion = New YOU!

Intensity


Add emotional appeal to the positive words you say to yourself. Begin to speak to your self with confidence and positivity. If you chose not to tak the path of positive self talk then you thoughts will be consumes with the following.

1. Fear
2. Worry
3. Stress
4. Anxiety
5. Failure
6. Pain
7. Misalignment with who you really are

So if you want positive change, then speak you yourself with intense emotion. Use positive phrases to reprogram your mind. Its the easiest way to make permanent way Why? Its simple and free of charge. All it takes is desire, initiative and consistency.

Can't Stop Won't Stop


Why do some people fail at positive thinking? A lack in consistency is usually the case. Developing a positive mind is simple, but it takes consistency. Consistent positive self talk creates positive momentum for years with daily action. It's not a mystery, why most people think in terms on negativity. Everyday your are bombarded with violence, terror, shooting and criticism. If you want to create a positive mind, you should work twice as hard on yourself as you do on your job. Create a new habit by making daily progress even when hope sees bleak.

Any thoughts?

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Diddy's Tips on How To Think Positive

What a wonderful day today is! I stumbled on this amazing you tube video about p-diddy's Aka Sean Combs rise to success. I wanted to share this video with you guys because i believe he delivers a lot of valuable information in regard to success. He goes into detail about his childhood, struggles, rise and fall to success.Hope you enjoy this video. Leave me some feedback when you are done please.

Peace/Love?/Truth!







Any thoughts? You got P-Diddy himself going into detail about what success, positive thinking and failure is about? Let me hear your thoughts!